CT Coalition Against Domestic Violence

About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Connecticut

Connecticut's Superior Court handles family matters through regional Judicial Districts and Family Support Magistrate Division locations. The Office of Child Support Services runs enforcement under DSS. Major cities include Hartford, New Haven, Stamford, Bridgeport, and Waterbury. Connecticut Legal Services and Statewide Legal Services of Connecticut provide civil legal aid, and every courthouse has a court service center offering free forms assistance.

More Domestic Violence in Connecticut

• The Umbrella Center – Hartford — Free domestic violence services for Hartford-area fathers and families including counseling, court advocacy, safety planning, and emergency
• Center for Family Justice – Bridgeport — Free domestic violence shelter, legal aid, counseling, and crisis services for Fairfield County survivors and children. 24/7 crisis line for
• Safe Futures – New London — Free domestic violence shelter, advocacy, counseling, and court support for southeastern Connecticut survivors and children. 24/7 crisis lin
• Prudence Crandall Center – New Britain — Free domestic violence shelter, counseling, and advocacy for central Connecticut survivors and children. Services include 24/7 crisis line,
• Women's Center of Greater Danbury — Free domestic violence and sexual assault services for Danbury-area survivors and children including fathers experiencing abuse. Services in
• National DV Hotline – Connecticut — Free 24/7 national hotline connecting Connecticut survivors and fathers experiencing abuse to local shelters, counseling, legal aid, and saf

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.