National DV Hotline – Hawaii

About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Hawaii

Hawaii's Family Court is a division of the Circuit Court and operates in each of its four judicial circuits (Oahu, Maui, Hawaii Island, Kauai). The Child Support Enforcement Agency operates under the Attorney General. Honolulu is by far the largest population center. Legal Aid Society of Hawaii is the primary civil legal aid provider, with Volunteer Legal Services Hawaii offering supplemental pro bono support.

More Domestic Violence in Hawaii

• Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence — Statewide network connecting survivors to shelters, legal advocacy, and support services across all Hawaiian islands. The coalition itself d
• Domestic Violence Action Center – Oahu — Legal advocacy, counseling, and domestic violence services for Oahu residents, including protective order assistance, court accompaniment, a
• Women Helping Women – Maui — Domestic violence shelter and services for Maui County including crisis intervention, safety planning, advocacy, and transitional support. D
• YWCA – Kauai DV Services — Domestic violence shelter and advocacy for Kauai residents, including emergency shelter, court advocacy, support groups, and child-focused s
• Hilo YWCA – DV Services — Domestic violence shelter and advocacy on the Big Island with emergency housing, court advocacy, and counseling for survivors and their chil
• Volunteer Legal Services – DV Cases — Pro bono attorneys for domestic violence legal cases through Volunteer Legal Services Hawaii. Matches qualifying low-income clients with vol

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.