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About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Indiana

Indiana superior and circuit courts hear family matters in all 92 counties, with some counties operating dedicated domestic relations divisions. The Child Support Bureau operates under DCS. Indianapolis, Fort Wayne, Evansville, and South Bend are the largest metros. Indiana Legal Services is the primary LSC-funded civil legal aid program.

More Domestic Violence in Indiana

• Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence (ICADV) — Statewide coalition coordinating DV services across Indiana and providing training, advocacy, and referrals to local programs in all 92 coun
• National Domestic Violence Hotline — 24/7 confidential hotline providing crisis intervention, safety planning, and referrals to local Indiana programs in 200+ languages via live
• Julian Center (Indianapolis) — Indianapolis' primary DV agency providing emergency shelter, a 24/7 crisis line, counseling, legal advocacy, and children's programs since 1
• YWCA of Greater Lafayette - DV Services — Provides emergency shelter, a 24/7 crisis line, support groups, and legal advocacy for DV survivors in Lafayette and Tippecanoe County. Serv
• YWCA of Northeast Indiana (Fort Wayne) — Serves DV survivors in Fort Wayne and Allen County with emergency shelter, a 24/7 crisis line, counseling, and legal advocacy. Serves surviv
• Center for Women and Families (South Bend) — Serves DV survivors in St. Joseph County with emergency shelter, a 24/7 crisis line, counseling, and children's programs. Despite the name,

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.