Alexandra House

About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Minnesota

Minnesota district courts hear family matters across its 87 counties. The Child Support Enforcement Division operates under DHS. Minneapolis-Saint Paul anchors the state; Rochester, Duluth, and Bloomington are other major metros. Legal Aid Service of Northeastern Minnesota, Southern Minnesota Regional Legal Services, and Mid-Minnesota Legal Aid cover the state through regional LSC-funded programs.

More Domestic Violence in Minnesota

• Day One Crisis Hotline — Statewide 24/7 domestic violence crisis line providing safety planning, shelter placement, and referrals across Minnesota. Advocates help ca
• Cornerstone Advocacy Service — Domestic violence shelter, legal advocacy, therapy, and safety planning for Dakota, Hennepin, and Scott county survivors from the Bloomingto
• Home Free – Domestic Violence Program — Abuse intervention, safety planning, and counseling programs serving both domestic violence survivors and individuals who have used abuse, b
• Violence Free Minnesota — Statewide coalition of domestic violence programs connecting survivors to local shelters, advocacy, and legal help from the Plato Boulevard
• Safe Haven Shelter for Women – Duluth — Emergency shelter, legal advocacy, and support groups for domestic violence survivors in the Duluth and Arrowhead area. 24/7 crisis line con
• National DV Hotline – Minnesota — 24/7 national domestic violence hotline providing safety planning, emotional support, and warm connections to Minnesota local shelters and a

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.