Do I need a lawyer to file for custody?

No. Every state has self-represented (pro se) filing options, and most county courthouses have a Family Law Facilitator or Self-Help Center that provides forms and guidance at no cost. A lawyer is strongly recommended if the case is contested, involves abuse allegations, or requires relocation or interstate issues.

How is 'best interest of the child' actually decided?

Judges weigh factors including each parent's ability to provide stability, the child's relationship with each parent, any history of violence or substance abuse, the child's preference (usually after a certain age), work schedules, and each parent's willingness to support the other's relationship with the child. Specific factors are listed in each state's custody statute.

Can I get 50/50 custody as a father?

Yes. Most states now have a presumption of — or strong preference for — joint legal and joint physical custody when both parents are fit and engaged. Fathers who show consistent involvement, stable housing, and willingness to coordinate with the mother have strong odds of receiving substantial parenting time, up to 50/50.

What if my ex violates the custody order?

File a Motion for Contempt or a Motion to Enforce with the court. Document every missed exchange, refused visit, or violation with dates, times, messages, and witnesses. Most courts treat repeated violations seriously, with remedies ranging from make-up time to modification of custody to sanctions.

Custody & Visitation in Nebraska

16 verified resources.

About Custody & Visitation for Fathers

Custody and visitation cases are handled at the state and county level, typically through each state's family court or unified family division. Every state follows some version of the 'best interest of the child' standard, but the specifics — how judges weigh parental fitness, how parenting time is structured, how modifications are granted — vary widely. Most states have free self-help centers inside their main courthouses where fathers can get forms, file paperwork, and receive guidance without hiring an attorney. National organizations like the ABA, Cordell & Cordell, and various fathers' rights groups supplement local resources. This directory combines official state court self-help portals, county-level family law facilitators, private family law firms that represent fathers, and fatherhood advocacy organizations — all verified and up to date.

Custody & Visitation in Nebraska

Nebraska district courts hear family matters in each of its 93 counties, with many counties using county court for paternity and child support. The Child Support Enforcement division operates under DHHS. Omaha and Lincoln dominate the state's population. Legal Aid of Nebraska is the primary LSC-funded civil legal aid provider statewide.

16 Resources

1. Legal Aid of Nebraska – Family Law — Free

Free civil legal help for low-income Nebraska fathers facing custody, visitation, paternity, and divorce matters. Attorneys and paralegals assist with filings, court preparation, and parenting plan drafting statewide from the Omaha office. Call the intake line to screen for income eligibility, then bring photo ID, any existing court orders, and proof of income to your appointment.

877-250-2016 · 209 S 19th St #200, Omaha, NE 68102 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

2. Douglas County Family Court — Free

Handles custody, divorce, paternity, and parenting time matters for fathers living in Omaha and surrounding Douglas County. The courthouse processes filings, schedules hearings, and connects self-represented parents with forms and mediation referrals. Visit the Farnam Street location during weekday business hours with photo ID, case number if you have one, and any prior orders involving your children.

402-444-7018 · 1701 Farnam St, Omaha, NE 68183 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

3. Lancaster County Family Court — Free

Custody, divorce, and family law court for Lincoln-area fathers in Lancaster County. Clerks accept filings, schedule hearings, and point self-represented parents to parenting plan templates and mediation programs. Walk in during weekday business hours or call ahead to confirm filing fees and required forms. Bring photo ID, existing court orders, and your children's basic information to any appointment.

402-441-7281 · 575 S 10th St, Lincoln, NE 68508 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

4. Sarpy County Family Court — Free

Family court serving fathers in the Bellevue, Papillion, La Vista, and broader Sarpy County area for custody, paternity, divorce, and parenting time. The Golden Gate Drive courthouse handles filings and schedules hearings weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, any prior court orders, and your children's birth certificates. Clerks can point you toward self-help forms and mediation resources but cannot give legal advice.

402-593-2251 · 1210 Golden Gate Dr, Papillion, NE 68046 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

5. Hall County Family Court — Free

Family court for fathers living in the Grand Island area and surrounding Hall County, handling custody, paternity, divorce, and parenting plan matters. Clerks at the 1st Street courthouse accept filings, schedule hearings, and distribute self-help forms during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, existing court orders, and your case number if filing a modification. Mediation referrals available on request for unresolved parenting disputes.

308-385-5135 · 111 W 1st St, Grand Island, NE 68801 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

6. Buffalo County Family Court — Free

Family court serving Kearney and Buffalo County fathers for custody, divorce, paternity, and visitation. The Central Avenue courthouse accepts filings, schedules hearings, and provides self-help resources during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, any prior orders, and your children's information. Clerks cannot give legal advice but can direct you to Legal Aid of Nebraska and local mediation programs for help drafting parenting plans.

308-236-1226 · 1512 Central Ave, Kearney, NE 68847 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

7. Scotts Bluff County Family Court — Free

Family court serving fathers across western Nebraska including Gering, Scottsbluff, and the surrounding panhandle, handling custody, paternity, divorce, and parenting time cases. Clerks at the Gering courthouse accept filings and schedule hearings during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, existing orders, and your children's birth details. Ask about panhandle-area mediation referrals and self-represented litigant resources at intake.

308-436-6600 · 1725 10th St, Gering, NE 69341 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

8. Dodge County Family Court — Free

Family court for Fremont-area fathers in Dodge County handling custody, parenting time, paternity, and divorce proceedings. The North Broad Street courthouse accepts filings and schedules hearings weekdays. Bring photo ID, any prior court orders, and basic information about your children. Clerks can point you to Nebraska Supreme Court self-help forms for custody modifications and parenting plans but cannot provide legal advice on your case.

402-727-2730 · 428 N Broad St, Fremont, NE 68025 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

9. Adams County Family Court — Free

Handles custody, divorce, paternity, and family law cases for fathers in Hastings and Adams County. The West 4th Street courthouse processes filings, schedules hearings, and provides access to self-help parenting plan forms during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, existing court orders, and your children's basic info. Staff can refer self-represented parents to regional mediation and Legal Aid of Nebraska for low-income assistance.

402-461-7146 · 500 W 4th St, Hastings, NE 68901 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

10. Lincoln County Family Court — Free

Family court serving fathers in North Platte and the broader Lincoln County region for custody, divorce, paternity, and parenting time matters. Clerks at the North Jeffers Street courthouse accept filings, schedule hearings, and distribute self-help forms during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, prior orders, and your case number if modifying an existing decree. Mediation referrals available for unresolved co-parenting disputes.

308-535-8080 · 301 N Jeffers St, North Platte, NE 69101 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

11. Platte County Family Court — Free

Family court for Columbus-area fathers in Platte County handling custody, visitation, paternity, and divorce cases. The 14th Street courthouse processes filings and schedules hearings during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, existing court orders, and children's birth certificates when filing new actions. Clerks can refer self-represented parents to Nebraska Supreme Court self-help resources but cannot give legal advice on specific cases.

402-563-4904 · 2610 14th St, Columbus, NE 68601 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

12. Madison County Family Court — Free

Handles custody, parenting time, paternity, and divorce cases for fathers in Norfolk and the surrounding Madison County area. The North Main Street courthouse in Madison accepts filings and schedules hearings weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, prior court orders, and basic information on your children. Clerks can direct self-represented parents to mediation programs and state self-help forms for parenting plans and modifications.

402-644-8700 · 1313 N Main St, Madison, NE 68748 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

13. Mediation Center – Omaha — Paid

Court-connected family mediation service helping Omaha-area fathers negotiate custody, visitation schedules, and parenting plans outside of contested court. Mediators facilitate structured sessions at the Leavenworth Street office weekdays. Fees apply on a sliding scale; call to screen eligibility and schedule. Bring any existing court orders, your proposed parenting schedule, and a list of disputed issues to make sessions productive.

402-345-1125 · 3102 Leavenworth St, Omaha, NE 68105 · Mon-Fri 9am-5pm

14. Creighton University Legal Clinic – Family Law — Free

Free custody and family law representation for low-income Omaha fathers, provided by supervised Creighton University law students. Intake is done through the California Street clinic during weekday business hours. Call to screen for eligibility and scheduling. Bring photo ID, proof of income, any prior court orders, and your children's basic information. Caseload is limited so early contact during the academic year improves chances of acceptance.

402-280-3068 · 2133 California St, Omaha, NE 68178 · Mon-Fri 8:30am-5pm · Visit Website

15. Nebraska Parenting Act Resources — Free

Official Nebraska Supreme Court self-help portal explaining parenting plan requirements under the state Parenting Act. Fathers can download forms, read court rules, and review sample parenting time schedules at any hour. Useful for self-represented parents preparing custody filings or reviewing obligations before mediation. Review the portal alongside any prior court orders and consult Legal Aid of Nebraska for individualized advice on complex cases.

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16. Dawson County Family Court — Free

Family court for Lexington, Cozad, and other Dawson County fathers handling custody, paternity, divorce, and parenting time matters. The North Washington Street courthouse in Lexington processes filings and schedules hearings during weekday business hours. Bring photo ID, any existing court orders, and your children's basic information. Clerks can refer self-represented parents to mediation services and state parenting plan resources but cannot provide legal advice.

308-324-2127 · 700 N Washington St, Lexington, NE 68850 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm

Custody & Visitation — Common Questions

Do I need a lawyer to file for custody?: No. Every state has self-represented (pro se) filing options, and most county courthouses have a Family Law Facilitator or Self-Help Center that provides forms and guidance at no cost. A lawyer is strongly recommended if the case is contested, involves abuse allegations, or requires relocation or interstate issues.
How is 'best interest of the child' actually decided?: Judges weigh factors including each parent's ability to provide stability, the child's relationship with each parent, any history of violence or substance abuse, the child's preference (usually after a certain age), work schedules, and each parent's willingness to support the other's relationship with the child. Specific factors are listed in each state's custody statute.
Can I get 50/50 custody as a father?: Yes. Most states now have a presumption of — or strong preference for — joint legal and joint physical custody when both parents are fit and engaged. Fathers who show consistent involvement, stable housing, and willingness to coordinate with the mother have strong odds of receiving substantial parenting time, up to 50/50.
What if my ex violates the custody order?: File a Motion for Contempt or a Motion to Enforce with the court. Document every missed exchange, refused visit, or violation with dates, times, messages, and witnesses. Most courts treat repeated violations seriously, with remedies ranging from make-up time to modification of custody to sanctions.