Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.

Domestic Violence in Nebraska

6 verified resources.

About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Nebraska

Nebraska district courts hear family matters in each of its 93 counties, with many counties using county court for paternity and child support. The Child Support Enforcement division operates under DHHS. Omaha and Lincoln dominate the state's population. Legal Aid of Nebraska is the primary LSC-funded civil legal aid provider statewide.

6 Resources

1. Nebraska Coalition to End Sexual & DV — Free

Statewide network linking survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault to local shelters, legal advocates, and counseling across Nebraska. The Lincoln office on South 84th Street runs a 24/7 hotline and referral system. Fathers who are victims of abuse or seeking safety planning for their children can call anytime for confidential help locating the nearest member program, emergency shelter, or legal advocacy service.

800-876-6238 · 245 S 84th St #200, Lincoln, NE 68510 · 24/7 hotline · Visit Website

2. Women's Center for Advancement – Omaha — Free

Omaha nonprofit offering emergency shelter, crisis counseling, legal advocacy, and support services for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. Despite the name, services are available to men and fathers experiencing abuse as well. The Harney Street office runs a 24/7 crisis line. Advocates can help with protection orders, safety planning, and referrals to community partners for housing and counseling.

402-345-7273 · 3801 Harney St, Omaha, NE 68131 · 24/7 crisis line · Visit Website

3. Voices of Hope – Lincoln — Free

Lincoln-area domestic violence and sexual assault program providing a 24/7 crisis line, advocacy, counseling, and court accompaniment for survivors. Fathers experiencing abuse or worried about their children's safety can call anytime for confidential help. Services include help filing protection orders, safety planning, and referrals to emergency shelter. Office correspondence goes to the PO Box on 10th Street; call for in-person meeting locations.

402-476-2110 · PO Box 80023, Lincoln, NE 68501 · 24/7 crisis line · Visit Website

4. National DV Hotline – Nebraska — Free

Free, confidential 24/7 national hotline that connects Nebraska survivors of domestic violence and their family members to local shelters, advocacy programs, and safety planning. Fathers worried about abuse in their household or their children's exposure can call or chat online anytime. Advocates can help coordinate referrals to Nebraska-based coalitions and local services, and do not require callers to give identifying information.

800-799-7233 · 24/7 · Visit Website

5. Friendship Home – Lincoln — Free

Lincoln-based emergency shelter and supportive housing program serving domestic violence survivors and their children, with a 24/7 crisis line and advocacy services. Fathers can call for confidential help locating safety resources for themselves, their children, or a family member being abused. Mailing address goes through the Lincoln PO Box; call for in-person location details and intake. Services provided at no cost to survivors.

402-437-9302 · Lincoln, NE 68501 · 24/7 · Visit Website

6. CEDARS Youth Services – Lincoln — Free

Lincoln nonprofit providing 24/7 emergency shelter, counseling, and supportive services for youth and families affected by violence, trauma, or homelessness. The Pioneers Boulevard campus runs around-the-clock intake for children and teens in crisis and supports the family reunification process where appropriate. Fathers worried about their child's immediate safety can call any hour for guidance and referrals to CEDARS programs.

402-434-5437 · 6601 Pioneers Blvd, Lincoln, NE 68506 · 24/7 · Visit Website

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?: Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.
What if I'm falsely accused?: Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.
How do I get a protective order?: File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.
Are there shelters for men?: Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.