Custody & Visitation in New Hampshire

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About Custody & Visitation for Fathers

Custody and visitation cases are handled at the state and county level, typically through each state's family court or unified family division. Every state follows some version of the 'best interest of the child' standard, but the specifics — how judges weigh parental fitness, how parenting time is structured, how modifications are granted — vary widely. Most states have free self-help centers inside their main courthouses where fathers can get forms, file paperwork, and receive guidance without hiring an attorney. National organizations like the ABA, Cordell & Cordell, and various fathers' rights groups supplement local resources. This directory combines official state court self-help portals, county-level family law facilitators, private family law firms that represent fathers, and fatherhood advocacy organizations — all verified and up to date.

Custody & Visitation in New Hampshire

New Hampshire's Circuit Court Family Division handles all family matters statewide. The Division of Child Support Services operates under DHHS. Manchester, Nashua, Concord, and Dover are the largest cities. 603 Legal Aid is the statewide LSC-funded civil legal aid program, with a strong self-help website for pro se fathers.

2 Resources

1. Shaheen & Gordon – Family Law — Paid

Full-service family law firm with offices across New Hampshire handling divorce, custody, parenting plans, child support, and modification cases for fathers statewide. Consultations are scheduled by phone at 603-669-8080 or through the firm website. Bring photo ID, existing court orders, a timeline of custody issues, and any relevant communications to your first meeting. Offices open Monday through Friday 8:30am to 5pm.

603-669-8080 · 107 Storrs St, Concord, NH 03301 · Mon-Fri 8:30am-5pm · Visit Website

2. NH Judicial Branch – Family Division — Free

New Hampshire's statewide family court division handles all custody, parenting time, divorce, child support, and domestic relations matters. Fathers can file petitions, request modifications, and access self-help forms through local circuit courts. Call 603-271-2521 or visit in Concord for procedural questions. Bring photo ID, the existing parenting plan or court order, and any filing fees or fee waiver request when appearing.

603-271-2521 · 1 Granite Place, Concord, NH 03301 · Mon-Fri 8am-4pm · Visit Website

Custody & Visitation — Common Questions

Do I need a lawyer to file for custody?
No. Every state has self-represented (pro se) filing options, and most county courthouses have a Family Law Facilitator or Self-Help Center that provides forms and guidance at no cost. A lawyer is strongly recommended if the case is contested, involves abuse allegations, or requires relocation or interstate issues.
How is 'best interest of the child' actually decided?
Judges weigh factors including each parent's ability to provide stability, the child's relationship with each parent, any history of violence or substance abuse, the child's preference (usually after a certain age), work schedules, and each parent's willingness to support the other's relationship with the child. Specific factors are listed in each state's custody statute.
Can I get 50/50 custody as a father?
Yes. Most states now have a presumption of — or strong preference for — joint legal and joint physical custody when both parents are fit and engaged. Fathers who show consistent involvement, stable housing, and willingness to coordinate with the mother have strong odds of receiving substantial parenting time, up to 50/50.
What if my ex violates the custody order?
File a Motion for Contempt or a Motion to Enforce with the court. Document every missed exchange, refused visit, or violation with dates, times, messages, and witnesses. Most courts treat repeated violations seriously, with remedies ranging from make-up time to modification of custody to sanctions.