Court-ordered batterer intervention programs available statewide with the NC Judicial Branch maintaining a directory of approved DV offender treatment programs organized by county. If ordered by a judge to attend, participants must enroll in a certified program and complete the curriculum to satisfy court requirements. Call 919-890-1000 or visit the NC courts website to find an approved program in your county. Programs are available in most urban and many rural NC counties.
Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.
Domestic Violence in North Carolina
North Carolina district courts handle family matters in all 100 counties, with some counties having dedicated family court sessions. The Child Support Services Section operates under DHHS. Charlotte, Raleigh, Greensboro, Durham, and Winston-Salem are the largest metros. Legal Aid of North Carolina is the primary LSC-funded statewide civil legal aid program.
More Domestic Violence in North Carolina
National Domestic Violence Hotline — 24/7 confidential support for anyone affected by domestic violence including fathers who are victims or who are concerned about someone they
NC Coalition Against Domestic Violence — Statewide organization coordinating domestic violence services across North Carolina and connecting fathers with local shelters, legal aid,
InterAct of Wake County — Provides crisis intervention, emergency shelter, legal advocacy, and counseling for domestic violence and sexual assault survivors in the Ra
Safe Alliance — Charlotte's comprehensive domestic violence and sexual assault agency offering emergency shelter, counseling, legal advocacy, and support gr
1in6 - Support for Men — Dedicated to helping men who have experienced sexual abuse or assault by providing online support groups, educational resources, and a 24/7
MaleSurvivor — National organization providing resources, support groups, and community for male survivors of sexual trauma. Offers online peer support for
Domestic Violence — Common Questions
Can men be victims of domestic violence?
Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.
What if I'm falsely accused?
Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.
How do I get a protective order?
File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.
Are there shelters for men?
Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.