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About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Pennsylvania

Pennsylvania's Courts of Common Pleas handle family matters in each of its 60 judicial districts. The Pennsylvania Child Support Program operates through county domestic relations sections. Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Allentown, Erie, and Reading are the major metros. Community Legal Services of Philadelphia, Neighborhood Legal Services (Pittsburgh), and MidPenn Legal Services cover most of the state.

More Domestic Violence in Pennsylvania

• Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence (PCADV) — Statewide coalition coordinating 60+ member domestic violence programs across Pennsylvania. Operates a statewide 24-hour hotline and connect
• National Domestic Violence Hotline — Federally funded 24/7 hotline at 1-800-799-7233 offering crisis intervention, safety planning, and referrals to local DV programs nationwide
• Women Against Abuse (Philadelphia) — Philadelphia's largest domestic violence agency providing emergency safe haven shelter, free civil legal representation, counseling, and adv
• Crisis Center North (Pittsburgh) — Serves domestic violence victims in northern Allegheny County with emergency shelter, legal advocacy, counseling, support groups, and childr
• Turning Point of Lehigh Valley — Comprehensive domestic violence services in the Lehigh Valley including emergency shelter, 24-hour crisis intervention, legal advocacy, coun
• PA Protection From Abuse (PFA) Orders — Pennsylvania's legal protection for domestic violence victims available through the Court of Common Pleas in each county. A PFA can grant te

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.