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About Domestic Violence for Fathers

Domestic violence resources for men have grown significantly over the past decade. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) accepts calls from any gender, and the Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) helpline and ManKind Initiative are dedicated to male victims. Every state has a coalition against domestic violence, and most cities have shelters — though male-specific shelter capacity remains limited. Men can obtain protective orders in family court, request supervised visitation, and work with victim advocates attached to local prosecutor offices. For fathers falsely accused of domestic violence during custody disputes, a criminal defense attorney or family law attorney with DV experience is critical. This directory includes national hotlines, state coalitions, men's shelters where available, and protective order resources.

Domestic Violence in Wisconsin

Wisconsin circuit courts hear family matters in each of its 72 counties, with Family Court Counseling services providing mediation and custody studies. The Bureau of Child Support operates under DCF. Milwaukee, Madison, Green Bay, and Kenosha are the largest cities. Legal Action of Wisconsin, Judicare, and the Legal Aid Society of Milwaukee cover the state.

More Domestic Violence in Wisconsin

• Wisconsin Domestic Abuse Hotline — Statewide 24-hour domestic abuse hotline connecting Wisconsin survivors to local shelter, counseling, legal advocacy, and safety planning re
• National Domestic Violence Hotline — 24/7 confidential hotline providing crisis intervention, safety planning, emotional support, and referrals to local Wisconsin shelters and a
• Sojourner Family Peace Center (Milwaukee) — Milwaukee's leading domestic violence agency providing emergency shelter, 24/7 crisis line, legal advocacy, civil protection order help, cou
• Domestic Abuse Intervention Services (DAIS) - Madison — Dane County's primary domestic violence agency providing emergency shelter, 24-hour helpline, individual and group counseling, legal advocac
• YWCA of Green Bay - DV Services — Provides domestic violence crisis services, emergency shelter, counseling, children's services, and legal advocacy for survivors in Green Ba
• Racine YWCA - DV Services — Serves domestic violence survivors in Racine County with 24-hour crisis line, emergency shelter placement, counseling, legal advocacy, and p

Domestic Violence — Common Questions

Can men be victims of domestic violence?

Yes — roughly 1 in 9 men experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) and ManKind Initiative serve male victims. Stigma is a major barrier, but the legal protections (protective orders, DV charges) are available to men in every state.

What if I'm falsely accused?

Take it seriously even if untrue. Consult a criminal or family law attorney immediately; don't speak to police or the accuser without counsel. Document your whereabouts, witnesses, communications. Most protective orders can be challenged at a full evidentiary hearing within 10–21 days of initial issuance.

How do I get a protective order?

File a petition at your county's family court or civil court — no attorney required. Temporary ex parte orders can issue same-day; a full hearing typically follows within two to three weeks. Court self-help centers and DV advocates help fill out forms at no cost.

Are there shelters for men?

Male-specific DV shelter capacity is limited but exists in some cities (through organizations like Valor, ManKind, and certain state coalitions). Most DV agencies will arrange hotel placement or referral to emergency shelter for male victims when shelter-specific housing isn't available.