Co-Parenting in Oregon

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About Co-Parenting for Fathers

Co-parenting programs help separated and divorced parents share custody constructively, minimize conflict, and raise children across two households. Most states require court-ordered parent education (often called 'parenting classes' or 'children first' programs) before finalizing a divorce or custody order involving minor children. These classes are usually four to six hours, available online or in person, and cost 5–$75. Private co-parenting mediation is available through court-based mediation programs (often free or sliding-scale) and through private mediators certified by state mediation councils. Digital tools like OurFamilyWizard, Talking Parents, and 2Houses provide court-admissible communication logs, shared calendars, expense tracking, and messaging — many family courts now encourage or require their use in high-conflict cases. This directory includes all three: state-required classes, mediators, and co-parenting apps.

Co-Parenting in Oregon

Oregon circuit courts handle family law in each of its 27 judicial districts. The Division of Child Support operates under the Department of Justice. Portland, Salem, Eugene, Gresham, and Hillsboro are the largest metros. Legal Aid Services of Oregon is the primary LSC-funded civil legal aid organization statewide.

17 Resources

1. Oregon Courts – Parenting Plan Resources — Free

Free statewide guidelines, sample parenting plans, and blank forms for creating custody and parenting time agreements under Oregon law. Resources are posted by the Oregon Judicial Department and available online 24/7. Parents can download forms, review self-help instructions, and find information about local family law self-help centers. Visit courts.oregon.gov/forms. Have your case number and county ready when filing completed documents with the court.

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2. Multnomah County Family Court Mediation — Free

Court-connected mediation program for Multnomah County families resolving custody and parenting time disputes without a full trial. Mediators are trained in family dynamics and Oregon law. Call 503-988-3022 during weekday business hours to schedule or visit the Multnomah Circuit Court page. Services are provided at reduced or no cost. Bring photo ID, case number, and any existing parenting plans or court orders to the session.

503-988-3022 · 1021 SW 4th Ave, Portland, OR 97204 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

3. Resolve Center for Dispute Resolution — Paid

Portland nonprofit offering private family mediation for co-parenting, custody, and divorce cases across the metro area. Sessions are held in person and by video. Call 503-595-4890 during weekday business hours or visit resolvecenter.org to request an intake. Fees are based on a sliding scale. Parents should bring photo ID, any existing court orders, parenting plans, and a brief written summary of key disputes to the first session.

503-595-4890 · 2701 NW Vaughn St #460, Portland, OR 97210 · Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · Visit Website

4. Lane County Mediation Program — Free

Court-connected mediation program for Lane County parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in Eugene-area family court cases. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents. Call 541-682-4020 during weekday business hours or visit the Lane Circuit Court page at courts.oregon.gov/courts/lane. Bring photo ID, case number, and any existing parenting plans or court orders so mediators can prepare the session.

541-682-4020 · 125 E 8th Ave, Eugene, OR 97401 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

5. Oregon Mediation Association — Paid

Professional membership organization for Oregon mediators that maintains a statewide directory of qualified family mediators for custody, parenting time, and divorce matters. Directory and resources are available 24/7 at omediate.org. Fees are set by individual mediators and vary. When contacting a mediator, be ready to describe the county, general nature of the dispute, and any court deadlines so they can confirm availability and expertise.

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6. Jackson County Mediation Services — Free

Court-connected family mediation for Jackson County parents working through co-parenting, custody, and parenting time conflicts in Medford-area cases. Services are often free or low-cost for qualifying parents. Call 541-776-7171 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/jackson for details. Bring photo ID, case number, any court orders, and a brief outline of the issues you want to discuss to the session.

541-776-7171 · 100 S Oakdale Ave, Medford, OR 97501 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

7. OSU Extension – Family Programs — Free

Oregon State University Extension offers free or low-cost research-based parenting, co-parenting, and family life workshops through county Extension offices statewide. Programs often cover communication, child development, and transitions such as divorce. Call 541-737-2513 or visit extension.oregonstate.edu to find classes near you. No court order is required. Registration may be needed for specific workshops; bring notebook and any handouts provided.

541-737-2513 · Corvallis, OR 97331 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

8. Clackamas County Family Court Mediation — Free

Clackamas County court-connected mediation program for parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in family law cases filed in Oregon City. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents. Call 503-655-8415 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/clackamas for details. Bring photo ID, case number, existing parenting plans or court orders, and a brief issue list to the session.

503-655-8415 · 807 Main St, Oregon City, OR 97045 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

9. Deschutes County Mediation Services — Free

Bend-area court-connected family mediation for custody, parenting time, and co-parenting disputes in Deschutes County cases. Services are usually free or low-cost for qualifying parents. Call 541-388-5300 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/deschutes for scheduling. Parents should bring photo ID, their case number, any court orders, and a brief written summary of the issues they want to resolve.

541-388-5300 · 1100 NW Bond St, Bend, OR 97703 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

10. Washington County Family Mediation — Free

Washington County court-connected mediation for parents in Hillsboro-area custody and parenting time cases. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents and are scheduled by the court. Call 503-846-8888 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/washington for details. Parents should bring photo ID, case number, any existing parenting plans or court orders, and a list of key disputes to discuss.

503-846-8888 · 150 N 1st Ave, Hillsboro, OR 97124 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

11. Marion County Family Mediation — Free

Marion County court-connected mediation program for Salem-area parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in family law cases. Services are typically free or low-cost and are coordinated through the circuit court. Call 503-588-5105 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/marion. Bring photo ID, your case number, existing parenting plans or court orders, and a brief issue list when attending the session.

503-588-5105 · 100 High St NE, Salem, OR 97301 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

12. OurFamilyWizard – Co-Parenting App — Paid

Court-approved co-parenting app used nationwide, including by Oregon families, for secure messaging, shared calendars, expense tracking, and document sharing. Judges often recommend or order its use in high-conflict cases. Available 24/7 online and through mobile apps. Call 866-755-9991 or sign up at ourfamilywizard.com. Parents pay an annual subscription; fee-waiver programs exist for qualifying users with court orders.

866-755-9991 · 24/7 online · Visit Website

13. Parenting Beyond Conflict – Portland — Paid

Portland-based practice offering classes and coaching for high-conflict co-parenting situations, including online workshops, one-on-one coaching, and parenting plan consultations. Services are scheduled by appointment. Call 503-223-6186 or visit parentingbeyondconflict.com to inquire about availability and fees. Clients should come prepared with parenting plan documents, court orders, and a brief description of the co-parenting issues they want to address.

503-223-6186 · Portland, OR · By appointment · Visit Website

14. Douglas County Mediation – Family — Free

Court-connected family mediation for Roseburg-area parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in Douglas County cases. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents and are coordinated through the circuit court. Call 541-957-2471 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/douglas for details. Bring photo ID, case number, existing court orders, and a short list of issues to the session.

541-957-2471 · 1036 SE Douglas Ave, Roseburg, OR 97470 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

15. Oregon Parenting Education Collaborative — Free

Statewide OSU-affiliated network funding evidence-based parenting education classes across Oregon for parents of children from birth through the teenage years. Many programs are free for participants. Call 541-737-2513 or visit health.oregonstate.edu/opec to find classes by county. No court order is required to attend. Bring a notebook and arrive on time; some programs provide child care and meals for registered participants.

541-737-2513 · Corvallis, OR 97331 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

16. Linn County Family Mediation — Free

Albany-area court-connected mediation for Linn County parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in family law cases. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents and are coordinated through the circuit court. Call 541-967-3846 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/linn. Parents should bring photo ID, their case number, any existing parenting plans or court orders, and a brief issue list.

541-967-3846 · 300 SW 4th Ave, Albany, OR 97321 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

17. Josephine County Family Mediation — Free

Grants Pass-area court-connected family mediation for parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in Josephine County cases. Services are typically free or low-cost for qualifying parents and are coordinated through the circuit court. Call 541-476-2309 during weekday business hours or visit courts.oregon.gov/courts/josephine for details. Bring photo ID, case number, existing court orders, and a summary of unresolved issues to discuss.

541-476-2309 · 500 NW 6th St, Grants Pass, OR 97526 · Mon-Fri 8am-5pm · Visit Website

Co-Parenting — Common Questions

Is a parenting class required for divorce?
In most states, yes — a short court-approved co-parenting course (4–6 hours, 5–$75, often online) is required before any divorce or custody order involving minor children is finalized. Check your state court's approved provider list.
What's the difference between mediation and court?
Mediation is a confidential negotiation with a neutral third party helping both parents agree on a parenting plan. It's faster, cheaper, and less adversarial than litigation. If mediation fails or one parent refuses, the court decides. Court-based mediation programs are usually free or sliding-scale.
Which co-parenting apps do courts accept?
OurFamilyWizard, Talking Parents, and 2Houses are court-admissible in most US jurisdictions. They provide tamper-proof message logs, shared calendars, expense tracking, and documentation judges will read if conflict escalates.
What is a parenting plan?
A written document (required in every custody order) detailing where the child lives, when each parent has parenting time, how decisions are made, how holidays are handled, how to resolve disputes, and how to handle changes. Courts provide templates; customized plans are stronger than boilerplate.