Resolve Center for Dispute Resolution

About Co-Parenting for Fathers

Co-parenting programs help separated and divorced parents share custody constructively, minimize conflict, and raise children across two households. Most states require court-ordered parent education (often called 'parenting classes' or 'children first' programs) before finalizing a divorce or custody order involving minor children. These classes are usually four to six hours, available online or in person, and cost 5–$75. Private co-parenting mediation is available through court-based mediation programs (often free or sliding-scale) and through private mediators certified by state mediation councils. Digital tools like OurFamilyWizard, Talking Parents, and 2Houses provide court-admissible communication logs, shared calendars, expense tracking, and messaging — many family courts now encourage or require their use in high-conflict cases. This directory includes all three: state-required classes, mediators, and co-parenting apps.

Co-Parenting in Oregon

Oregon circuit courts handle family law in each of its 27 judicial districts. The Division of Child Support operates under the Department of Justice. Portland, Salem, Eugene, Gresham, and Hillsboro are the largest metros. Legal Aid Services of Oregon is the primary LSC-funded civil legal aid organization statewide.

More Co-Parenting in Oregon

• Oregon Courts – Parenting Plan Resources — Free statewide guidelines, sample parenting plans, and blank forms for creating custody and parenting time agreements under Oregon law. Reso
• Multnomah County Family Court Mediation — Court-connected mediation program for Multnomah County families resolving custody and parenting time disputes without a full trial. Mediator
• Lane County Mediation Program — Court-connected mediation program for Lane County parents resolving custody and parenting time disputes in Eugene-area family court cases. S
• Oregon Mediation Association — Professional membership organization for Oregon mediators that maintains a statewide directory of qualified family mediators for custody, pa
• Jackson County Mediation Services — Court-connected family mediation for Jackson County parents working through co-parenting, custody, and parenting time conflicts in Medford-a
• OSU Extension – Family Programs — Oregon State University Extension offers free or low-cost research-based parenting, co-parenting, and family life workshops through county E

Co-Parenting — Common Questions

Is a parenting class required for divorce?

In most states, yes — a short court-approved co-parenting course (4–6 hours, 5–$75, often online) is required before any divorce or custody order involving minor children is finalized. Check your state court's approved provider list.

What's the difference between mediation and court?

Mediation is a confidential negotiation with a neutral third party helping both parents agree on a parenting plan. It's faster, cheaper, and less adversarial than litigation. If mediation fails or one parent refuses, the court decides. Court-based mediation programs are usually free or sliding-scale.

Which co-parenting apps do courts accept?

OurFamilyWizard, Talking Parents, and 2Houses are court-admissible in most US jurisdictions. They provide tamper-proof message logs, shared calendars, expense tracking, and documentation judges will read if conflict escalates.

What is a parenting plan?

A written document (required in every custody order) detailing where the child lives, when each parent has parenting time, how decisions are made, how holidays are handled, how to resolve disputes, and how to handle changes. Courts provide templates; customized plans are stronger than boilerplate.